Dress the Way You Want to Be Addressed
- mycoachkelli
- Aug 6
- 2 min read
We’ve all heard the phrase: “Don’t judge a book by its cover.” But in the professional world, that’s exactly what happens, every single day. Whether fair or not, people form opinions within seconds of seeing you. Before you even say a word, your presence, style, and demeanor start the conversation for you. And here’s the truth: that first impression? It can open doors or quietly close them. So ask yourself: Are you dressing the way you want to be addressed?
Style Speaks. Even When You Don’t
Your style doesn’t need to be flashy or expensive, but it should be intentional. A crisp blazer, a polished shoe, a confident color, all of these small details send a loud message: "I take myself seriously. You should too."
When you walk into a room looking neat, prepared, and put together, people take notice. They assume you’re capable, focused, and ready to lead. On the flip side, showing up disheveled or overly casual can send the message that you're not fully invested, even if that’s far from the truth. Your wardrobe is a form of nonverbal communication. Use it to your advantage.

Show Up Like You Belong, Because You Do
It’s not just about clothes. It’s about presence. Being on time. Being prepared. Being engaged. These are all part of your professional image and they matter. When you consistently show up like a leader, you begin to be treated like one. People trust you. They look to you. They remember you. Style is just one piece of the puzzle. Presence is the full picture. You don’t need a title to show up like a boss. You just need to carry yourself like one.
The Power of Consistency
Your image should consistently reflect the standard you hold for yourself, whether you're heading to a team meeting, a coffee chat or a virtual interview. Think of your professional image like a brand. You are your own walking business card. Would someone want to "work with your brand" based on how you show up?
When your look, your energy, and your message all align, people take notice. And more importantly, they take you seriously.
Make Your Impression Count
You don’t get to control how others think. But you do get to control how you show up.
So show up on time. Show up polished. Show up ready. Make your image match your ambition. If you want to be addressed with respect, credibility, and confidence, then dress, speak, and carry yourself accordingly. Every day is an opportunity to reinforce your value, without saying a word. Because yes, people are watching. And you deserve to be seen at your best.
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