Even If It Feels Uncomfortable, Put Yourself Out There.
- mycoachkelli
- Aug 18
- 2 min read
Updated: Aug 21
The truth: no one is coming to hand you confidence or help you enhance your self-esteem. You build it by showing up, again and again, even when you’re unsure. Especially when you’re unsure.
Professionally (and sometimes personally too), we’re taught to keep our heads down, do the work and wait to be noticed. But let’s be honest, that strategy leaves a lot of brilliant people sitting in the background while others speak up, step forward, and take the lead.
You don’t need more degrees or more years of experience to take up space. You need more belief in what you already bring to the table.
That looks like:
Speaking up in the meeting instead of overthinking your comment.
Asking for what you need instead of silently struggling.
Advocating for your ideas without watering them down.
Saying “I’d like to lead that project,” instead of assuming someone else will.
Here's the thing, you’re not asking for special treatment. You’re asking for what you need to succeed. And you’re allowed to do that.

Don’t shrink to fit environments that don’t see your full value. Don’t play small because someone once made you feel like, you were “too much.” Don’t second-guess your voice when you’ve done the work and then some.
You are qualified. You are capable. And you deserve to be heard. Put yourself out there. Even if it feels scary. Send the email. Post the photo. Pitch the idea. Ask the question. Own the room. You don’t have to wait until you feel 100% ready. Clarity comes through action. Confidence comes through practice.
The world doesn’t benefit from your silence, it benefits from your gifts. And those gifts? They weren’t meant to stay hidden. Let them shine.




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